I know that I said that I’d stop binging on Japanese dramas for a bit but I lied. I scarfed up Tokyo Tarereba Girls a few days ago and I’m not sorry that I did! This post will contain spoilers after the break, but not before.
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Now, why did I say this drama is frustrating? Well, it’s not because of the story, or the acting; it’s because the plot revolves around the premise that a (Japanese) “woman’s happiness” depends on getting married and having a child, and in the case of the 3 young women in this story, before the Tokyo Olympics (so they have someone to watch the games with?) in 2020.
They are all 3 single attractive women, all 30 years old, and while not exactly big money earners/successful, they live happy lives and have a great bond. They learn that it’s getting increasingly harder to find a potential husband candidate now that they have turned 30 and every wedding invitation or man choosing a 20-something is a slap in the face.
Maybe Kaori (the nail artist) is a little ambitious in wanting a man who’s good looking, between 30 and 40, and who makes a healthy salary, but she’s attractive and has her own small shop — in our western world she’d be a catch. So too would the very cute Rinko (the scriptwriter and central figure of the girls) because she’s so appealing (and has in fact at least one guy who’s been very fond of her — her senpai Hayasaka, an ubermensch). And practical, good cooking and appealing Koyuki (she helps in her father’s pub) is another catch who at the very least could appeal to any man’s stomach, but is also attractive in her own right. The idea that these young women would find it hard to find a man is somewhat ridiculous, if only we didn’t all know that this is just the case for many young women. That’s why this story feels relatable, but frustrating.
And it’s not just that they find it hard to get themselves on the marriage-bound track, the things that happen to these 3 during the course of the story, both as 3 close friends and how they relate to each other, but also with the men that enter their lives felt very real and plausible (if not at times a little/lot frustrating or disheartening).
Rinko and her friends are drinking and chatting in Koyuki’s pub (as they often do) about men and whether or not Rinko should make a play for her senpai when they draw the ire of a cool, good-looking young man with the blonde hair of a Korean idol. He labels them as “Tarereba” — living their lives on the “what ifs” that could happen but not acting on them or being forthright and honest. Rinko discovers that the sharp-tongued guy is KEY, a popular model, and he keeps coming into their world through a series of coincidences. This label rankles; but they end up taking decisive steps towards their future goals in different ways (which are also realistic and relatable).
Now it’s time for spoiler-ish stuff…